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In case you need a reminder that every person and body is wildly different, enjoy the below story, originally published in Junewherein 47 women over the age of 47 weigh in on the state of their sex lives. No topic was off-limits. Read their illuminating responses below. Now, do we have sex a lot???


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Do men have a stronger sex drive than women? By Julie Bindel. As people pointed out, this is what the kids today call a spectacular self-own.

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A slightly more interesting question is whether, on average, they want it as much as men do. And the answer, there, is almost certainly no. The most famous research on the subject is a meta-analysis by Roy Baumeister, Kathleen Catanese, and Kathleen Vohs, combining the of earlier studies. And men masturbated more frequently. The authors admit that this could be due to social disapproval of female masturbation.

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Women are more willing to go without sex: notably, female clergy do better at keeping to their vows. Sexual desire emerges earlier in boys than in girls, despite girls usually reaching puberty and physical sexual maturity earlier than boys.

Women’s sexual desire is different

Men initiate sex with their partners around twice or three times as often, and refuse it less often. Men are more interested in a wider range of sexual practices. Men sacrificed more for sexual pleasure, whether in financial terms — they spent more on pornography — or in terms of risk — they were more willing to have extramarital sex.

And overall, men are less likely to report low sexual desire and more likely to rate their level of sex drive highly.

Men, sex and relationships: a therapist shares surprising truths about desire

By Peter Franklin. Women were roughly twice as likely to report lack of sexual interest, lack of arousal during sex, or lack of enjoyment during sex. Another, earlier meta-analysis by two female researchers found large gender differences in masturbation practices and attitudes to casual sex. The same effect was seen in levels of aggression and spatial ability performance, while the opposite effect was found in verbal fluency. This is backed up by anecdotes from trans men, if you want to read about what it feels like. By Tom Chivers. There may well be socialisation or cultural effects as well — there is some evidencefor instance, that certain fetishes are affected by how many siblings you have and how old they are.

But many of the differences in sex drive are large effectsand most research these days finds that even major events like schooling and parenting have only a modest impact on other aspects of personality, so I would be surprised if socialisation is the only driver.

Men are the ones who commit sexual assaults and rapes, who pay for sex, who visit porn sites, who are found dead wearing stockings and suspenders with an orange in their mouth deaths from autoerotic asphyxiation are overwhelmingly men.

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You can explain this with complex hypotheses about how society is set up, or you can reach for the much simpler explanation, which is that men want sex, on average, more than women do. And, of course, if it is innate, then that makes sense from an evolutionary point of view, because — as in almost all other sexually reproducing species — females have to invest much more in pregnancy and birth and, often, childrearing than males do.

Do men want sex more than women?

The average woman is more likely to be able to successfully stick to a sex strike they are more willing to forego sexand the average man is much more likely to give into it they are more willing to make sacrifices for sexual pleasure. The Iroquois in knew this and so did the Kenyan women in It is a very good article. I am going through it carefully then I will come back to comment more views.

Yet the real question remains: How should men and women deal with this imbalance? It is plain to see that no one will be happy until both genders are happy and satisfied with their sex lives. Sad times indeed. I have to wonder, albeit there being plenty of evidence for why men want sex more often, is it also possible that women want sex less often because they are more satisfied when they do have it?

Not only this, but scientifically all areas of the brain are active whilst a woman is orgasming, but only the animal parts of the brain light up when men are orgasming. This article seems to contain nothing but waffle. Perhaps it is that male and female have irreconcilable libidos, period.

Women’s sexual desire and the definition of good sex.

Andrew Lowers point and, in its simplest form, men naturally have more testosterone and other male hormones. Women have a more emotional response to sex too — they do it because of the intense emotional connection they feel during it, caused by higher oxytocin levels than what men produce. When women orgasm, every area of the brain is active, including the human and emotional parts, a time when women feel most connected to their partners.

When men orgasm, only the animal parts of the brain activate i.

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Exactly… why?? I am all for an equal sex drive for men and women. Divorce rates would go down, happy couples everywhere. Our Mission Log in. Log in. May 24, Suggested reading Do men want sex more than women?

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More from this author Do men want sex more than women? the discussion. Yes why?? Many relationship issues would dissapear if women wanted sex as much as men.

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But neither of us puts sex on a pedestal.


It takes time, money, and--your most valuable and scarce resource--energy.


When it comes to talking about sex, it seems like everyone wants to solve the great mystery of what makes sex good for women.


You know that moment when you ask your partner what he's really thinking about?