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Whether you've never had sex at all, or you're considering having sex with a new partner, there are a few things you may want to consider.

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Many of us are unfortunately under-educated or misinformed about sex because of the poor curriculums at most schools, making it all the more difficult to gauge when would be a healthy time to consider taking this intimate step. The fact is, so much goes into the decision: the timing, the location, your mental state, and most importantly: the person you're planning to do it with.

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Obviously this is all a lot to consider and things don't always go as planned — hence why we have an entire post dedicated to girls sharing what they wish they'd known before having sex for the first time. More than anything, though, you want to feel ready. But what does that mean? We turned to 7 experts for their insight on the subject to help guide you through. Herein, all they had to say.

The right time is when it aligns with your your personal values, life goals, relationship goals, and emotional and physical needs.

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When you fully trust your partner, feel comfortable in your surroundings, and feel totally empowered in your decision, sex can be a source of joy and pleasure. But when those things are not aligned, it can be a source of stress and pain. Do you know what kinds of touch provide you with pleasure? Can you imagine speaking up and asking for what you need? Have you explored birth control options and STI protection? If the answer to any of these questions is 'no,' I recommend sticking with self-pleasure and partnered activities like mutual masturbation.

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And this desire is absolutely healthy and necessary to sustain a relationship. However, sex is not one of the things we should be doing for anyone but ourselves.

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Have sex because YOU want to have sex. And be absolutely sure that's the case.

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You have to be able to ask your partner if he [or she] has ever had or currently has any sexually transmitted infections. You also need to be able to discuss how you and your partner would handle a potential pregnancy.

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Celia Trotta, Board Certified Psychiatrist. Try not to latch onto wanting a boyfriend or girlfriend until you can put a name to the idea. Likewise, don't try to figure out whether you're ready to have sex until you're thinking about it with a specific person.

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Then ask yourself — and them — whether you're both ready to have sex with each other. At the very least, you should feel like your partner respects you, appreciates you, and values you. Ideally, you'll also have that respect not only for them, but for yourself, as well.

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There's a lot of talk, but not as much action as you'd think. I surveyed young adults aged 18 to 25 about how many partners they've had in their lives.

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How many would you guess? The median answer was three; the single most common answer was one. So if you decide to wait until your time, you'll be in good company.

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Also, it's really, really vulnerable to be completely naked in front of someone. Plus there are bodily fluids involved with sex; you get sweaty, you have to clean up afterward. If that scares you or grosses you out, you're probably not ready yet. Spend more time making out and getting comfortable with them.

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The most important thing to remember is that you should never feel pressured and you can say no at any time. You're then only one who will know, in your heart, if you are ready or not. Trust your intuition. Make sure both you AND your partner are comfortable and ready "It's sort of like wanting a boyfriend or girlfriend, but not having a good guy or girl in your life that you want to date.

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