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No idea what you should do with your life? Ask yourself these odd yet thought-provoking questions to find out.

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O ne day, when my brother was 18, he waltzed into the living room and proudly announced to my mother and me that one day he was going to be a senator. He also ran for state congress in his 30s and barely lost. Most of us have no clue what we want to do with our lives. Even after we finish school.

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Even after we get a job. Between ages 18 and 25, I changed career aspirations more often than I changed my underwear.

And even after I had a business, it took another four years to clearly define what I wanted for my life. This is the same kind of shitty logic used to justify things like spirit crystals or that your lucky is 34 but only on Tuesdays or during full moons.

We exist on this earth for some undetermined period of time. During that time we do things. Some of these things are important. Some of them are unimportant.

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And those important things give our lives meaning and happiness. The unimportant ones basically just kill time. This is an infinitely better question to ask. Rather, you should be getting off your ass and discovering what feels important to you. This is an impossible question for me to answer. After all, for all I know, this person is really into knitting sweaters for kittens or filming gay bondage porn in their basement.

I have no clue. But after some research, I have put together a series of questions to help you figure out for yourself what is important to you and what can add more meaning to your life.

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These questions are by no means exhaustive or definitive. Ah, yes.

The all-important question. What flavor of shit sandwich would you like to eat? Now, that probably sounds incredibly pessimistic. Manson, turn that frown upside down.

Everything involves sacrifice. Everything includes some sort of cost. Nothing is pleasurable or uplifting all of the time. So, the question becomes: what struggle or sacrifice are you willing to tolerate? Ultimately, what determines our ability to stick with something we care about is our ability to handle the rough patches and ride out the inevitable rotten days.

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What unpleasant experiences are you able to handle? Are you able to stay up all night coding? Are you able to put off starting a family for 10 years? Are you able to have people laugh you off the stage over and over again until you get it right?

And your favorite shit sandwich is your competitive advantage. Something about the social pressures of adolescence and professional pressures of young adulthood squeezes the passion out of us. And the transactional nature of the world inevitably stifles us and makes us feel lost or stuck.

The problem with looking for a “life purpose”

When I wasI used to write stories. I used to sit in my room for hours by myself, writing away, about aliens, about superheroes, about great warriors, about my friends and family. Not because I wanted anyone to read it.

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Not because I wanted to impress my parents or teachers. But for the sheer joy of it. We all have a tendency to lose touch with what we loved as. He just wanted to play. Look at the activities that keep you up all night, but look at the cognitive principles behind those activities that enthrall you. Because they can easily be applied elsewhere. I used to be like that with video games. In fact, for many years it was kind of a problem. I would sit and play video games instead of doing more important things like studying for an exam, or showering regularly, or speaking to other humans face-to-face.

My passion is for improvementbeing good at something and then trying to get better. The games themselves—the graphics, the stories—they were cool, but I can easily live without them. And when I applied that obsessiveness for self-improvement and competition to my own business and to my writingwell, things took off in a big way.

Embrace embarrassment. Feeling foolish is part of the path to achieving something important, something meaningful. The more a major life decision scares you, chances are the more you need to be doing it. And most people try to avoid embarrassing themselves, namely because it sucks. Ergo, due to the transitive property of awesomenessif you avoid anything that could potentially embarrass you, then you will never end up doing something that feels important.

Yes, it seems that once again, it all comes back to vulnerability. You have your reasons, no doubt. And you repeat these reasons to yourself ad infinitum. But what are those reasons? Sounds good. Great things are, by their very nature, unique and unconventional. Therefore, to achieve them, we must go against the herd mentality.

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And to do that is scary. But you can contribute and make a difference.

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So pick a problem and start saving the world. There are plenty to choose from. Our screwed up education systemseconomic development, domestic violence, mental health caregovernmental corruption. Hell, I just saw an article this morning on sex trafficking in the US and it got me all riled up and wishing I could do something. It also ruined my breakfast. Find a problem you care about and start solving it. And importance equals purpose.

None of us know exactly how we feel about an activity until we actually do the activity.

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For many of us, the enemy is just old-fashioned complacency. We get into our routines.

What’s your favorite flavor of shit sandwich and does it come with an olive?

We distract ourselves. The couch is comfortable. The Doritos are cheesy. And nothing new happens. So ask yourself, if someone put a gun to your head and forced you to leave your house every day for everything except for sleep, how would you choose to occupy yourself? You probably already do that. a book club? Go get another degree? Learn to hang glide? What would you do with all of that time?

What activity would you choose above all others? If it strikes your fancy, write down a few answers and then, you know, go out and actually do them. Bonus points if it involves embarrassing yourself.

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Ultimately, death is the only thing that gives us perspective on the value of our lives. It freaks us out.

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But thinking about our own death surprisingly has a lot of practical advantages. A lot of people gave vague and boring answers. A few drinks were nearly spat on me.

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